Etiquette & Policies

Though quite flexible (in more ways than one), my personal life is abundant, so please reach out with as much advanced notice as possible — preferably, at least 48 hours.

It’s nice to build some anticipation over a week (or two or three, or four), anyway…

New lovers require time for screening. A more last minute rendez-vous may be possible for familiar faces who just have to have me right here right now! Just keep in mind for last minute incalls: I still need time to reserve a space, at least the morning of.

If I am coming to you on an outcall, you must be in a 4 or 5 star hotel. Otherwise, I am happy to arrange incall! I do not do outcalls to your home until we are well acquainted.

Longer engagements and familiar faces are prioritized.

If you submit a serious inquiry and don’t hear back from me in a few days, please check your spam folder or feel free to follow up!

Dates are confirmed once the deposit is received plus any relevant travel fees (see below) paid at that same time.

20% of the full investment is required for dates under 6 hours in LA, SoCal & while touring.

40% is required for 6h+ dates anywhere and all FMTY.

Deposit + travel fees may be sent via Venmo, YouPay or crypto (preferred, especially USDC/T).

The remainder of the investment may be paid in either cash or crypto.

If cash, please present it in an envelope or book within the first few minutes of our date.

If crypto, the transaction should be fully completed (not pending) once our date begins. See my FAQs for a crypto guide.

Outside of Central Los Angeles, I require additional travel fees for my comfort and safety.

For TMTY (train me to you!) in the following areas:

• San Diego: +200

• Long Beach and Orange County: +100

(May increase slightly if very late at night, if I need to Uber rather than take the train.)

I may also request Uber cost if traveling more than an hour away elsewhere in Los Angeles, such as the West Side.

FMTY travel fees include both accommodation and all transportation.

Travel fees must always be sent along with the primary deposit in order to confirm our date. I will let you know what they will be ahead of time. 

Thank you for prioritizing my safety <3

My screening process involves both identifying information (ID + selfie holding ID + real phone number) and employment information (verifiable linkedin or work website or work badge, etc). 

References are optional and may be helpful in addition – not as a substitute – from other providers with active online presences.

Screening info will be emailed to my encrypted Proton address. I recommend you also use a Proton address so our communication is end-to-end encrypted.

This info may be sent either at the time of your initial booking inquiry, or you may wait until I confirm availability, but it will be expected quickly after that.

You are, of course, welcome to book a phone call with me prior to screening.

Thank you for respecting my safety procedures! <3

My cancellation fee is the same as that of my nail salon:

Deposits are non-refundable, but if you are rescheduling at least 48 hours ahead of the original meeting, it may be reapplied once to a new date within 6 weeks. This means we must decide on a new date at that time. If you do not know a new date when we can meet next, it will be considered a cancellation and your deposit will be forfeited.

Cancellation in under 24 hours will incur the full rate, paid at time of cancellation.

In the rare and unlikely case that I am the one to cancel, then your deposit will of course be refunded immediately.

I respect your privacy just as much as I care for my own. I am extremely aware of both the issues of surveillance from above as well as the necessary respect between each of us. I also understand that people live different lives, some of which call for special discretion.

During the screening process and our general communications, you will be required to submit identifying information. This will only be used for verification. I will only contact specifically designated emails/phone numbers that you approve to be contacted.

I recommend you use an encrypted Proton email address, and Signal for texting/calls.

Signal allows you to create a custom username that hides your phone number. If you book a call with me, this is where it will take place.

I have a No Review policy. Writing about our private time together in a public forum will forfeit your ability to ever see me again.

This policy is for many reasons: legal, privacy, and basic decency.

Review culture honestly disgusts me. It is also unnecessary for anyone who has such an extensive digital footprint as I do. Not to mention: reviews are often false and unreliable.

I also don’t trust middlemen, especially the middlemen who run platforms for sex workers. For example: it is public information that TER was founded by a man who tried to get his provider murdered. This is the foundation upon which review culture is based.

But perhaps most importantly: I value the uniqueness of our intimate connections, and I seek lovers who are on that same page. No need to kiss and tell!

Ultimately, I am confident in my track record and the energy I bring to our time together. 

Publicly posting about our private time together on any such platform will forfeit the opportunity to see me again.

(Note: If you are on P411, please let me know, as I may want to get on there in the future without reviews.)

Direct communication is important to me. Discussing boundaries in the beginning helps to foster an environment that is comfortable for both of us, so that we can move freely within those boundaries and have more fun!

I say “no” when I mean it, which also means that when I say “yes,” you can trust that I really want to do something! I also love when you communicate what you enjoy and don’t enjoy, or even figuring it out together.

Dates integrating kink/fetish require either an introduction call or a discussion during a more low-key first date.

Note: investments are for presence and time, and do not imply any specific activity.